My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments...

I will answer your question with a question:

I can’t honestly say I blame him for breaking up with you. Constant fights over things you don’t even care about? That seems like problematic behavior to me.

That’s a strange way to show you love someone.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

If you love him, why do you argue with him over “molehills” that don’t matter to you? Is that how you express love, by fighting over things you just said you don’t even think twice about?

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

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